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The Emotionally Married Escapist

He may not literally be married, but the relationship he's *in* is the one he's escaping. You are the elsewhere.

Signals you may notice

  • Avoids weekend nights
  • Treats this as 'his time'
  • Phones away during sensitive talks

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