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The Fantasy Escapist

Wants the relationship to feel like a beautiful break from his real life — and to stay that way.

Signals you may notice

  • Conversations about real life are short
  • Tries to maintain an 'island' atmosphere
  • Avoids logistics that ground the dynamic

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