Emotional patterns
The Transaction-Avoidant Romantic
Wants the support to feel romantic, the structure to feel like love. Discomfort with the financial undertone.
Signals you may notice
- Routes money through gifts not transfers
- Quiet about totals
- Says things like 'I just want to spoil you'
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